Whether you love TikTok or feel it signifies the downfall of civilization, one thing is hard to deny: Those posts are persuasive, occasionally teaching you lessons you didn’t know you needed and course-correcting decades of ignorance in mere seconds. Case in point: Right when you’ve accepted that you’re just not someone who can handle putting on a duvet cover without emitting an unbroken 45-second string of curse words, TikTok serves up the burrito-rolling method that changes everything. Or you’re just scrolling about your day when a random mom comes along to show you that you’ve spent your entire life replacing your kitchen trash bags incorrectly. (Who knew that was even something you could get wrong?)
When it comes to life hacks, TikTok has proved uniquely suited to educate us in ways that plain old text-and-photo articles or even YouTube videos can’t. There’s something about that alchemy of peppy background music, dynamic text snippets, and videos shot in hyperlapse that our brains can’t get enough of. Which is cool, as long as we’re talking duvet covers or trash bags. The trouble can come when trending hashtags cover more complex topics—weight loss, nutrition, birth control. Yes, even birth control is viral on TikTok these days, and in many posts the life hack is…to stop using birth control. Down the birth control rabbit hole, TikTokers are romanticizing a “return to nature” movement in which women “break free” of hormonal birth control methods. Pushing back against these highly effective birth control methods—which some TikTokers feel doctors dole out without sufficient discussion of their potential side effects and risks—is framed by many influencers as a powerful way to “reconnect with their periods” and “rebalance their hormones.”
“My cycle is a superpower and my body is my birth control,” one “fertility awareness educator” posts, sunshine on her skin and sexy Latin jazz in the background. Lip-synching or dancing to hold our attention and piling on the happy-sparkly emoji, influencers detail the ups and downs of their #comingoffbirthcontrol journeys, often claiming benefits like weight loss, less bloating, and improved sex drive. Only some of them preface their posts with a disclaimer that they’re not health care providers and that their personal experience might not apply to everyone. Some openly share that posts by other TikTokers are what inspired their own lifestyle shift: “Seeing other people’s journeys on TikTok was a huge reason I decided to go off” is an oft-heard refrain. It seems “breaking free” of birth control has gone viral not just on TikTok but IRL.
How, then, are people preventing all the pregnancies these days, especially at a time when abortion access is hardly a given? Well, this TikTok movement relies heavily on what’s called natural birth control and fertility awareness methods (or FAM, for short). Modern evolutions of the old-school rhythm method or calendar method, they involve mapping your ovulation cycle, often using a fertility-tracker app; monitoring your cervical mucus (yup, you regularly have to inspect a sample and chart whether it’s sticky or cloudy); and tracking your temperature daily with a basal body thermometer. Combined, this trio of biomarkers can help you ID your fertile days each month, and on those days you avoid sex or use condoms. A hormone-free blend of tech, nature, and common sense, FAMs have obvious appeal; it’s no surprise that #fertilityawareness and #naturalbirthcontrol have gotten more than 191 million and 60 million views, respectively.